Tantra Massage

DaVinci-chakrasWhen was the last time you felt

                              fully and completely touched…

your whole body, heart, and soul?



I intend to honor all of you with respectful, caring contact. Such touch is deeply nourishing and profoundly healing (in the original meaning: “making whole and complete”). Personal touch relationships with friends, lovers, or partners/spouses often leave some part of us untouched; they have their own needs and agendas, and maybe their own hang-ups and erotic wounds. Professional massage is rarely complete. It may focus on just muscles, or just energy, or be antiseptically un-erotic or the opposite extreme: an overtly erotic massage may be too genitally focussed.

Tantrassage approaches the body as a temple of the spirit, intending to put you more “in touch” with your innermost self through a skillful and nurturing combination of soothing muscle massage, gentle movement and stretches, breathing awareness, and balancing of the subtle energy: which is both “erotic” and “spiritual”.

The Tantric tradition is one of the few spiritual paths that view erotic energy as a gateway to higher consciousness, not as an obstacle to spiritual growth. Tantrassage is an opportunity to explore new ways of erotic touch that connect you to that direct experience.

For men, it is liberating to let go of the need to perform, or the anxiety/shame about erections, and to experience being touched in a sensuous, nurturing way that is free of the goal of ejaculation. For women, the healing can come from being touched erotically by a man who does not have a sexual agenda other than to touch you the way you want. Both men and women can discover new dimensions of subtlety when touch is slow and meditative.

You may experience emotional release as well as feeling deeply cared for and connected with your entire being. Your boundaries will be totally respected: each session will only be as intimate as you say is comfortable for you. As a professional Sacred Intimate, I am committed to focus on your needs; you do not need to worry about pleasing or satisfying me. Tantrassage has evolved from my personal and professional explorations over three decades.

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I trained in California in Eselan and deep-tissue massage, received training in Human Sexuality and an M.A. in East-West Psychology from the California Institute of Integral Studies, have had extensive training in Tantric/Taoist erotic massage from The Body Electric School, as well as decades of “independent research”. I have offered both co-ed and men’s Tantric workshops in British Columbia, Ontario, California, Washington, New Mexico, and New York. See MenInTouch.org


4 thoughts on “Tantra Massage

    Tantraman Sam said:
    October 8, 2015 at 8:58 pm

    It was a real pleasure to meet you Sequoia during your visit to London. I felt a really great connection, sharing so much that we have in common. It’s remarkable how similar our journeys have been, beginning with Siddha Yoga, developing into psychology/psychotherapy and now focusing on massage and tantra. Thank you for all the wisdom, insight and heartfelt empathy you shared with me. I hope we can continue to support each other in the years to come.

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      Mag said:
      October 8, 2019 at 1:02 pm

      I tried to text you but I couldn’t
      I like to have a massage season by you


    Maggie's Way said:
    February 21, 2016 at 4:31 am

    Sometimes life makes so much more sense when words capture and confirm an experience (especially to a writer! 🙂 ) You have the gift of touch, on many levels, and I feel grateful that our paths have crossed as I believe all encounters are two-way connections. Thank you for sharing your gift with me, and with so many others, in all your generosity. Wishing you well ❤

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